It is becoming a tragedy of our society that mothers are giving education to their daughters but also trying to keep them away from household affairs. Often mothers work all day in the kitchen and daughters seem to be restless. If girls are taught to do small tasks from childhood, then as they grow older, they will develop interest in working properly in the kitchen as well as in other household affairs. Mothers should accompany their daughters while working in the kitchen and start assigning small tasks to them.
Usually, mothers do not make their daughters work, thinking that they have to go to the in-laws and do all this, or that they will do everything when they have to. Is this tendency of mothers correct? Will the girl really become a key doll and start working automatically when the time comes? No! He should learn to take care of household affairs from his parents' house. When the daughter-in-law goes, later many responsibilities become a problem for her, she is surrounded by new problems every day. As a result, fights start in the house or girls prefer to stay apart, which destroys the peace of the house. In such critical situations, parents have the greatest responsibility to pay special attention to the education of their daughters along with their training. Parents should take special care that the house is run with dignity and not by degrees. A daughter is the mercy of Allah and there is prosperity in the house because of the daughter. Parents love their daughters more than their own lives, raise them with care and protect them from the cold and heat of the times, but if the daughter is not happy after marriage, the parents become helpless. For a girl, in-laws mean a new house and new people. Making room for the body is definitely a difficult task for a girl.
It has often been seen in the society that parents give their daughters good education but also try to stay away from household affairs. Today's girls are educated but very few are trained. Education and training are two separate components. In fact, parents also have some faults who are not teaching their daughters what to do if they have to go to another home. They do not teach him how to cook, nor do they teach him how to clean. Rather, they say that my daughter will read. Well, where does our daughter have time to take care of household affairs, she should only focus on her education and study with all her heart. Otherwise, what will people say that she has kept her daughter so narrow minded? Are you not familiar with the requirements of modern times? Which fashion is trending and which brand to buy is very popular among people. It is not a matter of great pride and joy, yes, but it is certainly a matter of sadness that your daughter does not know how to make tea or entertain guests. It's not that being familiar with fashion trends and new brands and buying them is a bad thing, it's a good thing, a person should be innovative and wear good clothes, but just wearing good clothes and looking good is not enough. Mothers should raise their daughters with both love and strict nurturing because “no one has seen your daughter's tomorrow.
However, if you train your daughter in such a way that she will go ahead and make wise decisions instead of getting worried, there is no doubt that she can easily make her place in the in-laws. Teach daughters to make their place in the in-laws with love Hearts are won by love and service. Respecting in-law relationships is very important. If relationships are not respected, the heart will grow bitter. Teach your mother-in-law to treat your father-in-law as your parents, and teach your husband to treat his brothers and sisters as your brothers and sisters. Friendship and love with all of them is yours. Will play an important role in making the daughter fit in the new house. Teach your husband to be tolerant and loving. Never support your daughter in fights, quarrels and wrong decisions. At the same time, teach her thrift that a thrifty girl never gives her husband a chance to complain. If the daughter is thrifty, she will manage her house thoughtfully and keep an eye on the coming time. Guide her to understand her problems and responsibilities, if she follows them, her reasonable steps will bring her respect in the in-laws.
No matter how much the girls progress in their professional life, if they are not familiar with household affairs and home economics, consider that there is a huge deficiency in their training, which parents and especially mothers realize later. Therefore, from an early age, girls should be made aware of these issues so that their married life goes happily. Make the daughters realize that after marriage, it is her greatest responsibility to take care of her house with full integrity, to play an effective role in raising her children and building a righteous society. Along with education, you should inculcate in your daughter a love of decency and skill so that the girl has to face problems after leaving her in-laws. Making a place in the in-laws is not a difficult task, it just requires love and understanding that the daughter gets from her parents in the form of training, try to train your daughter well so that after she leaves the in-laws, you too will be like your daughter. Be satisfied and calm.
Nausheen Ansari
Mumbai
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