میرے لئے اللہ ہی کافی ہے (Allah is enough for me)

 میرے لئے اللہ ہی کافی ہے

اگر کوئی مجھ سے پوچھے کے میں نے اپنی اب تک کی زندگی میں کیا سیکھا کیا تجربہ کیا تو میں کہو گی کے اللہ کے سیوا کوئی بھی اپنا نہیں ہوتا کل ملا کے انسان کا جو اثاثہ بچتا ہے وہ بس اللہ پر شروع اور اُسی پر ختم ہو جاتا ہے اور یہ دنیا یہ دوست حتٰی کہ عزیز رشتے سب غائب ہوجاتے ہیں کوئی مجھ سے پوچھے کے زندگی کا حاصل کیا ہے تو میں کہو گی اللہ کو راضی کرنا اور  ہر اُس خواہش کو  اُس انسان سے دور ہوجانا جس کی وجہ سے آپ اللہ سے دور ہو رہے ہو کوئی مجھ سے پوچھے محبت کا تو میں کہو گی اللہ اور بس اللہ ہی ہے جو ہم سے محبت کرتا ہے اور ہمیشہ کرتا ہے اُسکی محبت کو زوال نہیں ہے بس ایک وہی ہے جو ہمیشہ ساتھ دیتا ہے ساتھ رہتا ہے باقی ہر تعلق ہر رشتا ہر محبت  ارضی ہے 

ہر چیز بدل جاتی ہے اس زندگی میں حالات, لوگ, جگہیں, احساسات, پسند و نہ پسند حتی کہ ہم خود بھی

but one thing that remains constant is

الله میرے ساتھ ہے, الله میرا رب ہے

الله نے مجھے نہیں چھوڑا ہے میں الله کی نظر میں ہوں

Allah is enough for me

If someone asks me what I have learned and experienced in my life so far, I will say that no one belongs to Allah except Allah. And this world, these friends, even dear relationships disappear. If someone asks me what is the purpose of life, then I will say that it is to please Allah and to get away from every desire from that person, because of which you are Allah. If someone asks me about love, I will say Allah, and only Allah is the one who loves us and always does. Every relationship, every relationship, every love is earthly

Everything changes in this life, situations, people, places, feelings, likes and dislikes

Even ourselves

but one thing that remains constant is...

Allah is with me Allah is my Lord

Allah has not left me, I am in the sight of Allah

Nausheen Ansari

How can women maintain their mental health?

 Women's Mental Health: Feeling Something Different

Health and you

Good health means an optimal balance of physical, mental and social health achieved through a balanced lifestyle. A healthy life comes from a healthy mind and body. Therefore, all three types of health, physical, mental and social, are of equal importance. Today's women have to play different social roles. Therefore, they often face pressure from work and family. Carrying out the responsibilities of each of these roles and living a healthy life with it is not an easy task. Women should pay attention to their physical health along with their mental health so that they can live a life full of good health and happiness.

What is good mental health?

A woman with good mental health is agile and confident. She embraces her own self and personality and enjoys life. She ignores negative emotions (such as anxiety, depression, anger, resentment, hatred, and jealousy) or disturbing feelings. Sees life as meaningful and beautiful and has the ability to solve problems. In his view, no matter what the circumstances are, they can be brought under control and problems and situations bring out their talents in front of the world.

Ways to maintain mental health

Keep your thinking positive and optimistic

Be hopeful. Accept all kinds of situations with a positive mindset and learn from your failures. These are the ways to a happy life.

If a glass is half full of water, a positive thinking woman will be happy that the glass is half full now. She will feel relaxed and move forward with enthusiasm. On the other hand, a woman with a negative mindset will remain concerned that the glass is half empty and will not think of moving forward. That is, a glass half full of water has different meanings for positive and negative thinkers.

Don't think too much. Everything will be right when the time is right. Life is the name of sorrow and happiness. There is no need to be angry with life when you are sad.

Do your best

Most working women find it tiring to manage their job and home at the same time. While housewives also resent the success of their partners thinking that they are still doing the tedious and tiring work of the house. But the fact is that whatever role you choose for yourself, try your best. No need to compare yourself with others.

Unmarried women enjoy employment. While housewives get the love of family and household. Working women living with families can also lead a happy life at home and at the office if they keep their expectations in check.

A realistic expectation is a dream. An unrealistic expectation is a fantasy.

Encourage the positive aspects of your personality. Praise yourself for achievements.

Find common interests, discuss them

People in Hong Kong have very busy lives. This means that couples spend less time with each other and less communication. So, you should make the most of every moment with your spouse and fill those moments with happiness to maintain intimacy. Occasionally send your spouse a loving card or go on a trip with him to relive the pre-wedding memories. Do an activity together or discuss topics of common interest to expand the conversation. A happy marriage depends not on spending more time together, but on having a good time. So, enjoy every moment you spend with your spouse!

Create happy moments and surprise your spouse to make life happy. Don't be busy all the time. Spend some time together.

Friends are also important

Life is a tiring thing. Women often devote themselves to their careers and families and neglect the importance of friendships. In this situation, there is no one to share your feelings with if you have any problems.

Friends connect the scattered pieces of your life. Your friends help and support you when you have a problem or a bad time. Stay connected with old friends and make new ones too. You will definitely benefit from friendships one day or the other.

Start making new friends and build your support network.

Let others be your friends and make friends with others.

Pursue your hobbies in your free time

You should regularly take some time out of your busy routine to do things that you want to do even in your busy schedule. Activities that stimulate your creativity like gardening, knitting, making decorative items by hand. Such activities not only give you a break but are much better than watching TV.

Studying and continuing education can expose you to new knowledge. You can also do volunteer work or donate to charity to get a sense of accomplishment. Do whatever you want but remember not to over-busy yourself. Don't let hobbies become responsibilities.

Take an active role in life. Try to develop your own personality. Make time for fun. Don't think of yourself as a slave to work or family.

Assess your mental health

What type of personality are you? If your personality has more negative habits than healthy ones, improve yourself now to make your life happier!

A woman's heart is big or His patience?

 A woman's heart is big only then she is patient..

How can an illiterate woman enter the commercial sector?

 Currently, the problem of rising inflation and unemployment in the country is affecting every class and obviously women are also worried about this. A large number of women are working in government and private institutions and are the head of the household or in some families the woman is the sole breadwinner. However, not every woman can leave home for work and due to various reasons it is not easy for her to work from morning to evening. Not only the educated but also the uneducated women sitting at home can improve the lifestyle of all the members of the family by changing their conditions individually.

First of all, take some time out of your regular busy routine to do the things that you want to do even in your busy schedule. Activities that stimulate your creativity such as gardening, making decorative items by hand, making children's clothes and women's wear, sewing, embroidery, knitting, making home decor items, making jewelery and plastic items. , making envelopes and packing various items at home, etc. Apart from this, women who are less educated but can cook well can start a 'homemade food service' in their homes. Can prepare different types of food and send it to different offices and factories. For those who prefer home-cooked meals to outside meals, these meals prove to be a boon. which are not only cheap but also tasty. Also, women who are skilled in making pickles at home can sell to wholesalers and superstore owners in the markets.

Similarly, women who live alone at home can start their work by converting their home into a "day care center". Where working mothers can leave their children and go to work without fear and without hesitation. It can be very suitable for women in the area. Then, going forward, women from the surrounding areas or other neighborhoods will also be able to use this "day care center". If the number of children increases, women can also be employed, so other women will also be able to get employment. Apart from this, there are many women who can comfortably run boutiques, beauty parlors and tuition centers from their homes. These works will earn them reasonable income and also provide facilities to the women of the neighborhood. Also take care of the need of your female sisters in the neighborhood. If someone is a woman, they should also organize a 'Khatina Mela' for the talented women of their area, which includes sewing and embroidery, children's and adults' wear, jewelery and handicrafts, as well as food. There are also drinking stalls. Dozens of stalls should be decorated and each stall should look like a perfect piece of art. People should keep watching. That this display of art is only the handiwork of a delicate genre, not a model of a machine. If women continue to take steps towards economic self-sufficiency in the same way, their struggle to achieve their rights can also lead to a major change in society.

It is very important for women to be self-sufficient in society. The necessities of life and inflation demand that women become sisters, help men manage their homes and educate their children. Because the society considers women ideal who keep the family institution organized and strengthen it while fulfilling their domestic responsibilities. There are many organizations in the society which are working for women. They should establish training institutes for women, short courses and home handicraft centers for the benefit of housewives and girls. Undoubtedly, our women are second to none in intelligence, ability, competence and performance. They will make their place in the society according to their ability. Because only one thing is needed to strengthen the new ray of hope born in this society and turn the dream of a brighter future into reality, and that is to let women play their role in the vanguard. , to create an environment where they can exercise their creativity. Competence and capability are the guarantee of our better society.

Nausheen Ansari

Mumbai

اللہ ہم سب کو ہدایت دے!!!

کسی کو حق نہیں پہنچتا کہ کسی کے ایمان کو جج کرے یا اُس کا مذاق اُڑائے چاہے اُس کا ظاہر کیسا ہی کیوں نہ ہو۔ صرف اللہ کی ذات ہی یہ فیصلہ کر سکتی ہے کیوں کہ دلوں اور نیتوں کا حال صرف وہی ذات جانتی ہے حتٰی کہ فرشتے بھی اس کے متحمل نہیں ہیں۔ تمہارے اس عمل سے نہ جانے ایسے انسان کا کتنا دل دکھے اور اس وجہ سے وہ اسلام سے مزید دور ہو گیا تو یاد رکھو اس کا وبال تم لوگوں پہ ہے کہ تم نے ایسے انسان کا دل جو اسلام کی طرف مائل ہو رہا تھا اُلٹا دور کر دیا تو سوچو اللہ کو کوئی جواب دے سکو گے؟ اس کی پکڑ بہت سخت ہے۔ استغفار کرو اور ڈرو ایسی پکڑ سے اگر قیامت کے دن ہو گئی کہیں کے نہ رہو گے۔

انسان اچھائیوں اور برائیوں کا مجموعہ ہوتا ہے، سوائے انبیاء کرام کے جن کی گناہوں سے حفاظت خود اللّٰہ پاک کرتا ہے۔ کسی کی اچھی چیز پر اس کے سابقہ گناہ یاد کرانا کسی اچھے انسان کا شیوہ نہیں.

اگر کوئی برائی سے ہٹ کر اچھائی کی طرف آتا ہے تو ہمارا معاشرہ اس کی مدد کرنے کے بجائے اس کا ماضی لا کر اسکے منہ پر مار دیتے ہیں ۔۔

اللہ ہم سب کو ہدایت دے آمین

Translation…..

No one has the right to judge or make fun of someone's faith, no matter how it appears. Only Allah's Self can make this decision because only that Self knows the state of hearts and intentions, even the angels cannot afford it. I don't know how much the heart of such a person will be hurt by this act of yours and because of this he will become further away from Islam, so remember that the evil is on you people that you turned the heart of such a person who was leaning towards Islam in the opposite direction. Do you think you will be able to give any answer to Allah? His grip is very tight. Ask for forgiveness and be afraid of such a seizure, if it happens on the Day of Resurrection, you will not be left anywhere.

Man is a combination of good and bad, except for the Prophets, whose sins are protected by Allah Himself. It is not the way of a good person to remind someone of his past sins on a good thing.

If someone turns from evil to good, instead of helping him, our society brings his past and slaps him in the face.

May Allah guide us all, Ameen

Skilled women improve domestic conditions with their creativity

 More than half percent of women in the society are victims of domestic violence. If you look at the society, you will find pain, problems, anxiety, depression and despair in every other women's life. Which is very important for women to avoid. Therefore, the only way to get rid of worries and thoughts is women, keep your mind busy in some constructive work so busy that you don't even have time to think whether you are happy or unhappy. Must keep. The first thing is that the busyness should be of such a nature that it keeps both your mind and body busy. Remember that these engagements should be positive and constructive. For example, working for someone, being a part of a social activity, writing an article, giving time to children or husband, treating parents well, solving the problems of relatives, taking action in the collective interest of the neighborhood, etc. Included. Apart from these there are numerous activities that you can choose according to your taste.

Currently, the problem of rising inflation and unemployment in the country is affecting every class and obviously women are also worried about this. A large number of women are working in government and private institutions and are the head of the household or in some families the woman is the sole breadwinner. However, not every woman can leave home for work and due to various reasons it is not easy for her to work from morning to evening. Not only the educated but also the uneducated women sitting at home can improve the lifestyle of all the members of the family by changing their conditions individually.

First of all, take some time out of your regular busy routine to do the things that you want to do even in your busy schedule. Activities that stimulate your creativity such as gardening, making decorative items by hand, making children's clothes and women's wear, sewing, embroidery, knitting, making home decor items, making jewelery and plastic items. , making envelopes and packing various items at home, etc. Apart from this, women who are less educated but can cook well can start a 'homemade food service' in their homes. Can prepare different types of food and send it to different offices and factories. For those who prefer home-cooked meals to outside meals, these meals prove to be a boon. which are not only cheap but also tasty. Also, women who are skilled in making pickles at home can sell to wholesalers and superstore owners in the markets.

Similarly, women who live alone at home can start their work by converting their home into a "day care center". Where working mothers can leave their children and go to work without fear and without hesitation. It can be very suitable for women in the area. Then, going forward, women from the surrounding areas or other neighborhoods will also be able to use this "day care center". If the number of children increases, women can also be employed, so other women will also be able to get employment. Apart from this, there are many women who can comfortably run boutiques, beauty parlors and tuition centers from their homes. These works will earn them reasonable income and also provide facilities to the women of the neighborhood. Also take care of the need of your female sisters in the neighborhood. If someone is a woman, they should also organize a 'Khatina Mela' for the talented women of their area, which includes sewing and embroidery, children's and adults' wear, jewelery and handicrafts, as well as food. There are also drinking stalls. Dozens of stalls should be decorated and each stall should look like a perfect piece of art. People should keep watching. That this display of art is only the handiwork of a delicate genre, not a model of a machine. If women continue to take steps towards economic self-sufficiency in the same way, their struggle to achieve their rights can also lead to a major change in society.

It is very important for women to be self-sufficient in society. The necessities of life and inflation demand that women become sisters, help men manage their homes and educate their children. Because the society considers women ideal who keep the family institution organized and strengthen it while fulfilling their domestic responsibilities. There are many organizations in the society which are working for women. They should establish training institutes for women, short courses and home handicraft centers for the benefit of housewives and girls. Undoubtedly, our women are second to none in intelligence, ability, competence and performance. They will make their place in the society according to their ability. Because only one thing is needed to strengthen the new ray of hope born in this society and turn the dream of a brighter future into reality, and that is to let women play their role in the vanguard. , to create an environment where they can exercise their creativity. Competence and capability are the guarantee of our better society.

Nasheen Ansari

Mumbai

The role of women is important in the development of society

Women hold an important position in the society. A woman has been sent by Allah as a blessing to man in the form of mother, daughter, wife. In the case of a mother, the child, in the case of a daughter, the father, and in the case of a wife, she serves the husband throughout her life, because the respect that Islam has given to women is not found in any other religion. In fact, woman is the great person who nurtures and educates the society. The role of women in the development of the country is not hidden from anyone. Today, women in every field are using their skills in the development and prosperity of the country. Over time, changes took place and the impact of these changes on every section of the society, how could women be an important part of the society? Today she is a teacher, doctor and engineer and has honed her skills in almost every field, from flying airplanes to small businesses. That is why it is said that the image of the universe comes from the existence of women. And why not? Women make up almost half of the world's population and are making their mark in almost every area of life, from household responsibilities.

Although in earlier times, women had more responsibilities and were very busy. While in today's era, there are not so many responsibilities on women. It is also a fact that the mechanized age has provided many facilities to women due to which their kitchen work has become easier, such as washing clothes, cleaning the house, maids and machines are also available for all these tasks. They have some other responsibilities. Teaching children, doing their homework, dropping them off to school, fetching them, etc. Apart from this, there are also working women who are handling the responsibilities of the house well along with their work. Because today's women are giving full support to men in one way or another in economic self-sufficiency. A woman naturally has those qualities that cultivate generations. It is the right of a woman to have a respectable position in the home and society. It is our national responsibility to strengthen women economically, socially and politically, to protect their rights and interests and to provide them with equal opportunities without any discrimination. They have to explain what building a good personality means for social development. In view of the current situation, women's skills should be harnessed to run the domestic and national systems. In addition, efforts should be made to highlight employment education and training at all levels. Especially girls should be provided career counseling according to practical life. Training institutes should provide better education as well as employment. Women who are working in different fields should also be counselled. A system should also be developed where such women can be contacted easily.

The role of women is very important in the construction and development of the society. It is true that in the world today, women are stepping out of the house and performing their duties diligently in the fields of their choice. That is why educated and intelligent women have to join practical politics and play their role in eradicating backward thinking and attitudes from the society. The struggle of women is very important in our society. If we want to make a change as individuals or as a group, what weaknesses do we have to overcome and what strengths do we have to use for improvement? Especially regarding women, it is important to see what are the facts of this society. What are the atrocities, which cannot be ignored in any case, and what are the facts that are the product of some other problem, how to solve them? Here also there is a need to adopt positive and active thinking instead of reaction.

If women take their steps towards economic self-sufficiency, their struggle for their rights can also lead to a major change in society. In Islamic history, Hazrat Khadijah, Hazrat Aisha, and Hazrat Fatimah are role models for women in the society. Women should follow their teachings and their golden principles to lead the country and the nation in the best way.

Nausheen Ansari

Mumbai